tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post3761770744194710694..comments2024-03-27T15:45:49.926+04:00Comments on Life in Dubai: Why the rudeness?Seabeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06939892206726271433noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-36903675834484738672009-09-08T02:20:39.505+04:002009-09-08T02:20:39.505+04:00Actually someone (ME) decided that YOU are a SUBHU...Actually someone (ME) decided that YOU are a SUBHUMAN and are worth anally raping.<br /><br />Thats the JIZZ of it. All over your face!<br /><br />MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!<br /><br />The answer to online rudeness comes in a single word, ANONYMITY. <br /><br />Actually, Im even worse in real life.<br /><br />Seabeastiality... Its simple. I respect humans. How I define Humans leaves 99.99999999999 % of you guys in the Subhuman realm. Beneath me and above a dog.<br /><br />I dont respect dogs, nor will i respect the likes of you. When you meet my criteria to be upgraded to human status, I will forward some respect.<br /><br />Till then yo iz mah beotch yo!<br /><br />- ABITAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-19943167611393140282009-09-05T13:12:57.803+04:002009-09-05T13:12:57.803+04:00anon 12:37 - yes and no. In four years I received ...anon 12:37 - yes and no. In four years I received no such comments. My style didn't suddenly change. What happened was someone decided to take offence and started trolling me. And mine is not a unique experience. If you've remained under the radar, be thankful.Para Gliderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06615806398448197008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-72522902438801046932009-09-05T00:37:58.366+04:002009-09-05T00:37:58.366+04:00There is a problem with people being rude but ther...There is a problem with people being rude but there is also a problem with the manner in which you express your opinions.<br /><br />It tends to invite these reactions from people.<br /><br />I have been blogging for a long time too and have never had this kind of feedback from people.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-84974933710914531992009-08-31T17:22:25.948+04:002009-08-31T17:22:25.948+04:00yeah, dear Moryarti, i see your point but i don...yeah, dear Moryarti, i see your point but i don't know why people are rude to you in the first place. I find your blog much more tame and balanced (than mine) sometimes and yet you're having probs with rudeness.<br /><br />Sure, i switch on comment moderation every now and then especially when I criticise Israel, but it's off soon after because I feel the ability to leave fluid comments on my blog is worth more than my posts anyday!BuJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17281313255927628650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-91507115540714762452009-08-31T07:16:14.210+04:002009-08-31T07:16:14.210+04:00@Paraglider
i can relate to your comment ... i la...@Paraglider<br /><br />i can relate to your comment ... i lately enabled moderation as well and fended off quite nasty and vile language - directed at me and others.<br /><br />My wife and other friends and family read my blog and i do not wish them to read some of the filth some sad souls leave behind, at least not in a place that i own.<br /><br />very sad indeed...moryartihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02947593768240856478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-50756897977553482202009-08-28T13:07:10.704+04:002009-08-28T13:07:10.704+04:00And not one of them answered my question.
Remembe...And not one of them answered my question.<br /><br />Remember I said: <i>Among the people reading this are those of you who are bad mannered enough to leave offensive comments. Many of you do that regularly and exclusively, never leaving a sensible or helpful comment. My questions are to you...Why do you do it? The comments section is open for you to tell us...</i><br /><br />Not one of them owned up to why they do itSeabeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06939892206726271433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-18031219942147525242009-08-28T08:44:39.636+04:002009-08-28T08:44:39.636+04:00While I did not take the repeated threats of viole...While I did not take the repeated threats of violence, anal rape, and murder seriously (the last of which is repeated as a comment here), the irritation is that the obscene content and mode of expression defiles any site where it is posted, making it unpleasant for bona fide readers and discouraging further rational comment. This in turn leads to comment moderation, which effectively prevents any real time interaction on the blog. Pity.Para Gliderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06615806398448197008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-78887416973596842862009-08-25T22:28:57.998+04:002009-08-25T22:28:57.998+04:00The answer to online rudeness comes in a single wo...The answer to online rudeness comes in a single word, ANONYMITY. <br />Hiding behind their user names people are unaccountable for what they write. They will not have to deal with the consequences.<br />If you live in Dubai you will be familiar with the guys in the big flash cars, with the black-blacked-out glass, who drive mean, reckless, flashing the headlights, cutting-in. They are the same kind of animals. They are too important (they think), too influential (just possibly), to be touched for their dangerous bullying. Same, same kind of cretin. <br />There is a certain kind of person that indulge their weak egos, their immaturity and unresolved anger when they know THERE WILL BE NO COME BACK. Hold them accountable and they just wouldn't have the nerve. These are cheap people. They give themselves away with the poverty of their language and their thought. <br />So clean up their comments as quick as maybe and we'll all just treat them as they deserve- we'll ignore them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-61360761509195455892009-08-25T10:57:02.138+04:002009-08-25T10:57:02.138+04:00JM there's no need to apologise, contributions...<b>JM</b> there's no need to apologise, contributions to the debates here are welcome, at least the polite ones.<br /><br /><i>I do find it vaguely amusing that you take offense from someone who is complaining about something you yourself complain about on a regular basis - ie, a lack of real research and an assumption.</i>.<br /><br />I'm in no position to carry out research but I'm interested in the subject and the answer, hence the posts about it. They're an opportunity for someone who does have the facts to give us the answers - but the only seemingly qualified person who's contributed left nothing but the unhelpful comment I complained about.Seabeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06939892206726271433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-1126611326627517692009-08-25T00:19:43.177+04:002009-08-25T00:19:43.177+04:00I apologise for the following out-pouring of thoug...I apologise for the following out-pouring of thoughts and opinion, commenting on blogs isn't something I tend to plan or place much importance on, so there is little structure to what I have written so take what you like from it.<br /><br />Although not an expert in any field relating to human behaviour or psychology, it seems to me to be the nature of many to want to challenge an authority figure. <br /><br />By writing a blog and putting your opinions in the public domain (especially if they are strong ones) you are establishing yourself as a quasi-authority figure and therefore in the firing line for those who disagree, or sometimes not for those who disagree, but for those who mean to play devil's advocate, but simply come across as being rude and disagreeable.<br /><br />As a second hypothesis, I would guess that in general, we don't tend to mix with people who don't share our points of view. And where we are forced to mix with people with beliefs different to our own, we tend to keep things polite and to the point rather than making grand statements of opinion. When we are relatively sure that the people in our immediate vicinity will share our thoughts and feelings we are much more comfortable to relax and open our hearts. This is most likely the reason that we are not constantly thumping each other in disagreements over opinion.<br /><br />Bear in mind that a comment written on a blog has probably only had a fraction of the thought or research put into it that the blog itself received. You chose to set up this website and spend the time to document your thoughts. Treat it as a compliment that someone has found enough time in their day to read your thoughts and write any sort of comment, good or bad.<br /><br />In direct response to the comment you are complaining about this time, I do find it vaguely amusing that you take offense from someone who is complaining about something you yourself complain about on a regular basis - ie, a lack of real research and an assumption.<br /><br />The photo of the car on fire in Sharjah caught my eye in the paper's a couple of days ago too, but I don't immediately imagine there is a higher instance of car fires in the UAE than any other country. I have absolutely no idea of how many car fires there are in other countries.James Mattisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15687686222465311343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-66782847692682449732009-08-24T18:05:28.168+04:002009-08-24T18:05:28.168+04:00People are rude on blogs the same as they are rude...People are rude on blogs the same as they are rude to strangers in the outside world.<br /><br />There's very little specific to Dubai in it. In fact, I find Dubai to be one of the 'less rude' places I have lived.<br /><br />It's annoying and sometimes upsetting. All you can feasibly do is disengage.Sophiehttp://goeastyoungwomantodubai.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-17253277288162831952009-08-24T17:37:03.712+04:002009-08-24T17:37:03.712+04:00Honest thoughts Seabee, but then again, most peopl...Honest thoughts Seabee, but then again, most people are rude in blogworld because they quite honestly don't care or care to think. Shame, really. I also agree with Rose in Dubai and BuJ.roshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03271894997251528158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-14505145413617747462009-08-24T12:22:50.374+04:002009-08-24T12:22:50.374+04:00ABIT, your comment which I deleted, as I'm sur...<b>ABIT</b>, your comment which I deleted, as I'm sure you knew I would, shows a distinct lack of knowledge of obscene vocabulary. You really must learn more than two words.<br /><br /><b>Anon@4.24</b>, I'll make allowances because of your age for what I'm sure you think is a really smart response, creative and unique. Only someone under ten years old would think they're the first to think of it and that it's hysterically funny.Seabeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06939892206726271433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-29762547612435885162009-08-24T09:35:16.083+04:002009-08-24T09:35:16.083+04:00i think it's a chronic problem here.. dunno fr...i think it's a chronic problem here.. dunno from what? maybe coz we have too many cultures too quickly and ppl cannot take the time to understand the differences so they react in the easiest way posisble - by being rude.<br /><br />good on you to point it out though!BuJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17281313255927628650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-35604657313783578582009-08-24T09:28:04.045+04:002009-08-24T09:28:04.045+04:00Congratulations! Our selection committee compiled ...Congratulations! 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I would imagine that most of them are absolute wimps in the real world!Rose in Dubainoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-30657448671844275822009-08-23T08:25:42.643+04:002009-08-23T08:25:42.643+04:00It's just misdirected passive aggressiveness I...It's just misdirected passive aggressiveness I think. There is no come back , and I am angry at the world/my boss/traffic etc . I don't agree with you , and the last time I didn't agree with someone , politics dictated that I keep silent- so I'm making up for it now ! Isn't this what they call trolling?him or herhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02992960494574185045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-78071196857219648112009-08-23T06:35:58.276+04:002009-08-23T06:35:58.276+04:00Sometimes it's hard to pick up a persons tone ...Sometimes it's hard to pick up a persons tone over the internet, but posting a comment on a blog gives you a sense of anonymity. Like, yeah I can be rude, no one knows who I am sort of thing.LDUhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01625937487320546155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-84159101177112605082009-08-22T22:28:47.714+04:002009-08-22T22:28:47.714+04:00completely agree with you. my last post on my blog...completely agree with you. my last post on my blog is getting a similar treatment.Umar in Dubaihttp://umarsiddiqi.com/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-21877685369032615692009-08-22T18:47:05.173+04:002009-08-22T18:47:05.173+04:00I agree that there is a greater incidence of rude ...I agree that there is a greater incidence of rude behavior and believe there are two contributing factors. The first is the anonymity provided by cyber-communities and the second is the dissatisfaction people feel in their lives. We are all, for the most part, chasing something we are not even sure we want. And we've paid a heavy price for that in the amount of time we don't have to nurture ourselves and our relationships. It's important to remind each other that it's unnecessary to be confrontational. Debate is good. Anger needs channeling somewhere else. I love Obama's comment. "We can disagree without being disagreeable". Sign me armchair sociologist.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-67484252291554755622009-08-22T18:43:11.290+04:002009-08-22T18:43:11.290+04:00Seems to me people take these things personally. ...Seems to me people take these things personally. As if the question was some sort of personal affront which must be met with a very strong response. One, I might add, they'd never do face to face. There's a sense of security in anonymity as well. I'm 7000 miles away so do your worst kind of thing.The Last Ephorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10546829944086243794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-23370171444969304792009-08-22T18:41:21.503+04:002009-08-22T18:41:21.503+04:00Yes, I also wonder about that too. The worse thing...Yes, I also wonder about that too. The worse thing is that there are people leaving their comments with the 'anonymous' name, as if they don't want to show their online identity. <br />I am inclined to delete them.<br />One can be of a different opinion but can say it in a decent way, or not say anything at all.Noblesehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05105383796971785581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-5397427503732832012009-08-22T17:44:07.129+04:002009-08-22T17:44:07.129+04:00hear hear...
i wonder about it too.hear hear...<br /><br />i wonder about it too.Emhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01267643422775549142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21258644.post-25043748023654577692009-08-22T16:53:06.894+04:002009-08-22T16:53:06.894+04:00I agree that it is unacceptable. Today I received ...I agree that it is unacceptable. Today I received two comments on two separate blogs, but from the same person both containing obscene violence and even a death threat. Why? I suspect because he took exception to a comment I made on the UAE Community Blog which was critical of Dubai's treatment of labourers. As he is, I believe, banned from the uAE Blog, he followed me to my own places purely to attack me. Some people have no concept of decency.Para Gliderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06615806398448197008noreply@blogger.com